We live in a society that tends to dismiss mental health and self-care, but with a large percentage of the population now suffering from moderate to high stress levels...
Taking GOOD care of yourself should be your first priority!
I know we've talked a lot recently about balance in your life. We've also covered the long term damage that stress can cause. Making yourself a priority is more important than ever!
The tips I'm providing today may sound very familiar - because they ARE! Mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health are related. Which means that taking action to improve any one area – improves them all! Win. Win.
In the interest of keeping this short – I'm not going to explain why each of these tips is important or why they are effective. I'm just going to list them and if you'd like more detailed information please feel free to shoot me an email.
I'm also providing a spiffy little infograph image at the bottom of this post so you can print these tips and put them somewhere you will see them every day. Remind yourself that you deserve the best life ever!
(right click on the image above and choose 'save image as')
Supporting you on your journey,
So what the heck? There's a secret to manifesting?
Why didn't anyone tell me?!
You want it.... really bad. A new car, a new house, to lose weight, go on vacation, MONEY! You manifest for it, you take the action steps, you visualize, you affirm and you match the frequency in a dizzying dance of euphoric woo woo!
Sometimes it works - in a lesser form, perhaps - but themagic happens. Other times....(crickets chirping)
Time passes and yep - it's still you and the crickets! For me - this usually results in a full on tantrum. My four year old child takes over and hollers dramatically at the Universe. Whhherrree's Myyyyy Stufffff! Complete with tears and flailing limbs. Exhausted - I finally give up (and let a whole lotta self-judgment settle right into my cells!)
So you move on, get on with your life, stop all that mumbo jumbo stuff and lo and behold - it suddenly shows up one day or something even better comes along and happiness ensues!
Wait...what? Was my frequency suddenly aligned? Had I somehow arrived at the exact place I needed to be to receive it?
Does the explanation really even matter? AHA MOMENT HERE: Nope
When we relax, have fun, be happy and STOP trying so hard - THEN things start to happen!
I know - I know, somebody told you or you read it somewhere - you have to think about it all the time. You have to BE in thevibration of it all the time. Here's the deal. Do you think about breathing all day long? Do you think about the sun coming up - about gravity holding you to the earth - about that new shirt you ordered online? No. No worries, right?
You don't have to jump through manifesting hoops. You don't have to TRY so HARD because when you do - you're standing right in the way of receiving. (this is so me!) I'm not saying you shouldn't 'be in the energy' of what you want. Absolutely - you should. Just don't revolve your entire life around an expected outcome. Manifest, KNOW, move on.
I know this isn't always easy - staying out of your own way and detaching yourself from the outcome. Especially when you're in a difficult life situation. Fact is though - that living in the NOW and being happyis what life really is all about. It's a Win Win situation. You take pressure off yourself. You put your order in and stop checking to see if it shipped or what day it will arrive. You move on - You Know.
You are powerful - you have the Divine in every cell of your DNA! Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is sit back, relax and enjoy the crickets! You've Got This!
Supporting You On Your Journey,
This week a friend asked me about how clarity can be found in chaos.
My answer was Surrender, but not in the way you might think...
In the not so distant past I made a move from Florida to N. Carolina with my boyfriend. He had been offered a Producer's job with a local news station there. It meant taking a chance (I was in my 40's) but I would be closer to my oldest daughter and so I went. Long story short - he lost his job a year into the move and I was not working at that time. Three of my four grown daughters had come to live with me and it felt like life was going to hell in a handbasket. I was beating myself up for somehow manifesting the situation and I even railed at the Universe. I actually screamed! "Show me what I'm doing wrong!"
Here's where things get interesting... within 24 hours of that frantic cry for help - a calm, peaceful 'knowing' settled over me. I felt really good. I knew that everything was going to work out. I surrendered it all to the Divine. Surrendering was not in my nature (still something I struggle with...lol) so this was BIG.
Outside circumstances declined. Money ran out. My boyfriend could not handle the fact that I was happy and not worried about the future. He packed his things and took the only car we had (and all of the remaining money) and he left to return to FL. Rent was past due. I STILL couldn't bring myself to worry. (What the heck?!)
The day after he left - a miracle came...a Best Selling author that I had emailed with a glowing review of her latest book - emailed me. We talked on the phone and it turned out she needed some remote admin help. She wanted me to be her personal assistant. She immediately sent me a retainer that was not only enough to settle my debts, but also enough to rent a truck, load our things and return to FL. How crazy is that?!
I went on to work for her for two years and during that time I gained some essential tools and knowledge that I use now in my own business. I also began to embrace my life purpose - to help others Heal.
I've often reflected on that time in my life. I know that I learned something invaluable through the experience. I realized some time later that there were so many factors involved. One of my four daughters who came to live with me while I was there (she had left a difficult relationship) met a young man 6 months before I moved back to FL. When I left - she opted to remain there and I now have another amazing grandson (Connor) that I celebrate every day.
The Divine works in such magical and inspired ways!
Yep, great chaos, lots of drama, change, AND a gift (or two) from the Divine. I learned that when you surrender it doesn't mean conceding defeat or that you are being complacent about your current circumstances. It means no longer fighting, hiding and resisting. You can be happy - NOW - knowing that the future will take care of itself.
That said.... I experience these moments less frequently than I'd like. lol I'd love to experience this kind of knowing every day. I still worry. I still fear. I still question myself, judge myself and even occasionally holler at the Universe.
Oh My! But I do it less. I remember this amazing experience and others like it. I smile!
I hope my sharing this experience will help you to remember that surrendering is an essential part of life and Healing. Embracing where we are and choosing Joy. Now. It all opens the door to amazing possibilities!
Supporting you on your journey,
So just what is our soul and why is it so important to feel connected with it?
By definition the soul is: the immaterial essence, animating principle, or actuating cause of an individual life. It's the spiritual principle embodied in human beings or the universe.
It's the 'pilot light'; the spark that is our essence. It's our Higher Self. It's our Source Energy.
Today's world is moving so fast! Our days start to blend together in one long 'To Do' list. Things can be so frenetic that we spend very little time getting in touch with who we are. We seem to spend less and less time on the things we are passionate about and that give us purpose, if we even know what they are?
Connecting to our soul empowers us! It fills us with divine unconditional love and a sense of purpose. Embracing this essence helps us live a more joyful, conscious, mindful and meaningful life. I love that aligning with this amazing energy also activates healing and that this support is ALWAYS available to us. Does it get any better than that?!
Connecting with our soul isn't difficult, and the rewards are immeasurable.
The Zen Lane
(excerpted from 365 Ways to Connect with Your Soul)
"Meditation isn’t always about being in a totally quiet, controlled environment or sitting in the lotus position. Sometimes it’s about listening to your inner voice, expressing your love and gratitude, and connecting to the divine within you. One of the places I can slip into alpha and really connect to my soul is…in the car! Yep, you read that right: in the car.
A number of years ago, I faced a very long daily commute in heavy traffic. Rush-hour-encompassed horn blowing, hand flailing, and hollered complaints at my fellow drivers. Prying my fingers off the steering wheel had become a daily habit!
Once I realized how much time (and energy) was being frittered away while on the road, however, I made a conscious decision to move into the “Zen Lane.” I began using my commuting time to center myself and do my “I AM” affirmations. I talked to the Divine and shared my thankfulness. I smiled. If someone cut in front of me, I wished them a safe journey. Delays? No problem – more time to get my thankfulness on!
It’s been years since I made these changes, and they still have an amazing impact not only on my own life but also on the lives of my passengers. Last week, my daughter and I pulled up to a drive-thru line behind an open Jeep with several very young children in the front and back seats. In the past, my first reaction would have been to start a rant about bad parenting and children being protected and safe. Instead, I got very quiet, and after a moment my daughter turned to me and said, “I’m sending positive energy to that Jeep to protect them on their journey”…exactly what I had been doing!
These days, instead of grumbling about traffic or a rush-hour commute, I always cherish my time in the Zen Lane. How amazing is it that something that I once dreaded has become one of the best parts of my day!"
Betcha this wasn't one of the first things that popped into your head when I mentioned connecting with your soul! This is just one of the many heartfelt contributions in this book. I can't wait for you to read them all!
Whether you’re already BFF's with your soul and are looking for fun ways to deepen the connection, or you're feeling adrift and are looking for ways to re-connect, this book makes it super easy to align with your soul and the universe.
To learn more about the book or order your copy today - click on the image below (check out the Free Gifts being offered for a limited time!)
This special book is filled with such positive, loving energy, and I know that it’s going to be so healing for so many. The contributing authors all came together to share how we connect with our own souls with the hopes that it will help you connect with yours as well.
We're celebrating the launch of 365 Ways to Connect to Your Soul with a Blog Tour!
Each day starting on November 17th and going through the end of the year, our book will be featured on at least one site where you’ll be able to read interviews from the authors, see excerpts from the book, listen to podcasts, win prizes, and more!
I'd love for you to check out these amazing contributors who are blogging tomorrow (November 20th)!
Mary Jane Allen – http://manifestyourlifedream.com
Keyra Conlinn – http://www.keyraconlinn.com
Mimi Quick – http://www.mimiquick.com
Annalene Hart – http://www.mydivineenchantedlife.wordpress.com
Mariet Hammann – http://www.llifc.com
Supporting You on Your Journey,
“Whenever we are appreciative, we are filled with a sense of well-being and swept up by the feeling of joy.” ~M.J. Ryan
What is Gratitude?
Simple question right? Gratitude: "the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness."
What's missing (and so important) from this definition is what gratitude can do! Not only for ourselves but for others as well. When we consciously express out gratefulness, when we appreciate the world around and within us, we reach a higher vibrational frequency. It is in this frequency that healing and balancing our lives is not only possible it's assured!
Gratitude is an immensely powerful force! Scientific studies have found that people who practice gratitude experience greater physical health and emotional wellbeing. One such study conducted by renowned psychologists Robert Emmons and Michael McCullough, found that participants who cultivated an 'attitude of gratitude' experienced:
Gratitude is a crucial quality to embrace if you want to experience more happiness, joy, energy and increased health. Gratitude is a fullness in our hearts. It can move us from fear, lack and limitation to expansion and deeper, more fulfilling love. It can shove our ego aside so we can connect with our soul. (this is the perfect place to shamelessly plug our new book; 365 Ways to Connect to Your Soul - Available November 17th! Watch for more on this!)
In that place of connection, in the now, our lives flow in grace and harmony. Who wouldn't want more of that?!
Okay Gia, how do we get the 'attitude of gratitude'? How do we create a practice that spills over into every area of our lives? Great Questions!
Practicing Gratitude doesn't have to be a long, drawn out process that weighs you down. - Expressing more gratitudewhenever you can (even if you're not practicing daily) will create amazing differences in your outlook on life and in how you feel.
Here are some practices to try:
I know you're saying, Gia, "how can I be thankful when I have so many challenges and I feel so down?" It takes some practice but I promise you - one small step at a time - it becomes so much easier and you'll be thankful that you took the time - even a few minutes a day to train yourself to think in a new way. You'll see - that with a little time your whole perspective on life will shift!
Increasing gratitude CAN enhance many different aspects of your life, most notably your health! Could there be an easier, or more inexpensive way to enhance both your happinessand health?
NOW is the perfect time to start embracing more gratitude. Here's your loving nudge - to begin focusing more on the positives. I promise you'll feel better in so many different ways! So take a look at what you have - and be thankful - reach out to others. Watch as your life blossoms with even more abundance!
I'm sending HUGE GRATITUDE to each and every one of you for being part of my journey and sharing your lives with me!!
Life can be a challenge. Some days so much of a challenge that we just can't face the day without protection. Protection from the judgment, the anticipated rejection, disappointment or pain. So we 'armor up' and place a mask between ourselves and the world.
Ultimately - we all wear a mask for the same reason - because without it we must deal with that screeching inner voice that tells us "we are not good enough as we are." That if we show the world our true - authentic 'face' - judgment will chew us up and spit us out leaving us a quivering heap of wounded humanity.
We've been programmed to care so much about what the world thinks of us that we lose touch with who we really are! Not to mention the fact that if you're anything like me - you're your own worst critic. Is it any wonder we run to our 'emotional closet' first thing in the morning and choose which mask we'll need today?!
Will it be the People Pleaser mask? You know, the one we use to make everyone else happy because having a different opinion or thought will cause conflict. Until you have suppressed your own thoughts for so long you're no longer sure what they are?!
Or maybe the Functional Mask is your favorite. This is one we all need at times. The one that helps you through that business meeting when your son just called to tell you he backed into a fire hydrant in your brand new SUV. The one that lets you 'function' and perform your usual routine no matter what emotions are swirling around inside you.
Maybe you wear a mask of Anger because anger allows us to keep people at a distance so they can never know you are really feeling vulnerable, lonely or maybe even worthless? Another way to protect yourself might be the Happy Mask - smiling and joking even when your feelings are hurt or you're feeling overwhelmed.
I once had an associate who used the Avoidance Mask so fiercely that she came off as cold, uncaring, and arrogant to everyone she encountered. If a situation or person made her feel uncomfortable, she just wouldn't respond. She'd say, "I need to sit with this" and she would sit and sit and eventually never respond at all. What she didn't realize was that in protecting herself she was alienating potential friends, co-workers, love interests, and even her family.
There are many masks we use for protection. We have to ensure our authentic selves remain hidden. At what cost though? In the short run masks can shield us from the stinging arrows of life. Or we might use a persona to manifest the life of our dreams (fake it till ya make it). This one's a personal favorite of mine!
In the long term though - wearing a mask is not only exhausting but it desensitizes us to our own true feelings. We also immediately lose the opportunity to be truly connected to others and to be truly connected to ourselves. This can lead to anxiety, depression and dis-ease! We pay such a high price when we let others define us!
So how do we stop this habitual ritual of reaching for the masks?
Embracing the Authentic You:
Set the Intention: Yep - just like everything else in life - we begin with intention. We commit to taking action. To taking care of ourselves first and foremost (for a change!). Even though it might not be easy at first and could leave us feeling vulnerable and maybe even judged - we can do it! So voice your desires - speak up about which movie you'd like to watch or where you'd like to eat. One step at a time. (this doesn’t me we should suddenly embrace our inner child and become a demanding toddler - yep - I sometimes give in to that little girl who's laying on the floor kicking and screaming, "I want what I want, now!") We can express ourselves with kindness as grace.
Head High: No matter what mask you've sent back to the closet - being vulnerable can be scary. This is the time to breathe deep and stand straight. Expressing your true self - your true opinions and desires doesn't have to be difficult. Spend time getting to know what it feels like to put yourself first. Accept all the Feels!
New Coping Skills: This is so important! As we allow ourselves - to be ourselves - we'll need new coping skills. Skills to help us deal with emotional pain, judgment and vulnerability. You can find lots of great coping skills right here by reading through my blog!
Acceptance: It may take some time to stop automatically reaching for a mask. (Some masks when used short term are both a necessity and a healthy coping mechanism.) Facing our fears, especially those of being criticized or rejected isn't pleasant. We've become attached to who we are behind those masks. We like that insulated vacuum that protects us not realizing that it is also preventing us from healthy growth - and from being loved and accepted for who we really are. Our authentic self.
Here's an exercise that can help:
Grab a pen and make two rows on a blank sheet of paper. On one side quickly write down five words you feel define who you are. Don't overthink this - just write it down! (i.e. strong, loving, kind, respectful)
Now, whether these qualities are true or not - use the other side to write down the opposite of each. (i.e. weak, unloving, unkind, disrespectful)
Now try this, using the words I am - randomly add a word from the first row and then from the second row. Like this. I am strong and I am unkind. I am loving and I am weak. Would it surprise you to not only realize you are all of these things and that your mask is not really necessary for you to live with these contradictory parts of yourself? The yin and the yang. We are ALL balancing our contradictions and that's what life is all about. Embracing ALL that we are!!
Take a look at those masks - and what they're hiding from the world. Be gentle with yourself. Explore who you are. Who you are with the mask firmly in place and who you are beneath that mask. You're a Divine Masterpiece. Perfectly Imperfect. Entitled. Entitled to be loved and accepted for who you really are!
Grab those new coping skills and the hands of someone you love and trust - and step out and feel the sunshine on your face! You've got this!
Supporting You on Your Journey,
I suffered from anxiety and panic attacks for many years before I created a personal health plan that reduced stress, embraced a healthier lifestyle and emphasized a firm dedication to self-care (well most days..lol). I share this with you straight off, so you will know that not only have I been there, in the throes of overwhelming panic (Somebody Help me!) but I also have an arsenal of tools to help.
Anxiety – you know - that sudden constriction in your chest as your body moves into fight or flight response. Once the difference between returning to your cave or being eaten by a saber tooth tiger – today, this response can still be a healthy tool to alert us to a dangerous situation or motivate us to excel ( such as studying harder for an exam). When anxiety turns into an episode of intense panic or fear though– it is no longer a healthy tool but a signal from our bodies that something needs to change. Anxiety (and stress) is by far the number one symptom my clients all have in common.
Anxiety attacks, sometimes referred to as panic attacks, usually occur suddenly and without warning. Sometimes we can determine the trigger (being stuck in an elevator) but more often than not – they happen with no obvious cause. Symptoms can include chest pain and heart palpitations, panic, trouble breathing, hyperventilating, trembling, sweating, chills, feeling like you’re going to lose consciousness, nausea, feelings of detachment or loss of control. Yep, it’s scary even reading them! So let’s get to the tips.
1) Stay – When you realize that anxiety has seized control of you – don’t run away from it. Panic attacks typically peak within 10 minutes and they will subside more quickly when you can signal your brain that there is no danger. If you flee the scene your panic response will associate that location with the panic which creates a whole new issue. When you stay in the situation, your panic response receives the message that this is a false alarm and it will return your body functions to normal. Whew! But how do you get through the fear… great question! Read on….
2) Breathe – When we move into anxiety our breathing becomes fast and shallow. When we deepen and lengthen our breaths we reinforce the message that this is not an emergency and our bodies can return to normal. Slow your breathing by first holding your breath and then slowly breathing in and out…breathing from your diagram (lower tummy). If you’d like more on this – please feel free to email me and I’d be happy to send you more information.
3) Keep Thinking – During times of panic – the thinking part of our brains becomes less active – most of our resources are dedicated to becoming more physical. Doing something methodical sends the message to your brain that “this is not a real emergency” so it can stand down and stop posturing!
b) Name 4 things you can hear (people talking, television)
c) Name 3 things you can smell right now (something cooking, fresh air)
d) Name 2 things you can feel right now (feet on the floor, cushion at your back)
e) Name 1 thing you love
4) Tapping - this technique can be a very effective tool during anxiety attacks (this is one of my personal favorites) and has proved very beneficial to many of my clients who not only suffer from anxiety attacks but chronic pain, fibromyalgia, fear and many other symptoms. Here is a great Tapping through Anxiety video by Brad Yates that can help get you started: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6kq9N9Yp6E (If you’re saying to yourself, “Gia – what the heck is tapping – shoot me an email and I’d be happy to explain – just know – it’s good stuff!)
5) Using peripheral vision - Let your field of vision broaden until you can see from the outside corners of your eyes. Relax your jaw muscles and breathe deeply. This exercise activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which tells your body to cut out the drama and calm down.
Although you may be experiencing anxiety and stress from a demanding schedule, pressure at work, relationship issues, lack of sleep, health problems or even too much caffeine – the bottom line is that your body is telling you it needs balance and that you need to make some changes.
Here are a few things to remember:
1) Make sure you’re getting enough sleep. (you know why this is so important – it’s when our bodies do the most healing and balancing!)
2) Eat foods that help balance your mood and energy: nuts, soy, milk and yogurt, dark green leafy and orange vegetables, broth soups, legumes, citrus, wheat germ, tart cherries, and berries. Avoid too much processed flour, sweets and caffeine.
3) Schedule relaxation time and STICK TO IT! – Make time to relax and unwind. Meditation doesn’t have to mean an hour in the lotus position, chanting “Om”. As little as fifteen minutes of meditation a day can have a huge impact. Try a short Chi Gong session. Take a walk and enjoy nature.
4) Learn to say NO! - Be discerning and eliminate some of those activities that you have crammed into your schedule and that are welcoming OVERWHELM to step right up and take you for a ride!
5) Get emotional support – I know it can sometimes be hard to talk about your anxiety attacks and that it can also be hard for some people to understand the panic and fear. Find someone you can trust to support you. I got through many panic attacks by picking up the phone and having a dear friend talk me through it!
6) Remember that this is a signal from your body – the panic is not going to last and you are okay. With some modifications to your lifestyle you can wave goodbye to these attacks for good! Tell yourself, “Anxiety – bring it on cuz I’ve got this!”
There are many more tools to help with anxiety, stress and panic attacks but these are some of the ones I have found the most helpful. I hope that you do too!
**These techniques are recommended for anxiety – if you are not sure your symptoms are those of an anxiety or panic attack please see a health care professional to determine the cause.
Supporting You on Your Journey,
Ever feel like you’re on a mad tilting carousel and you’re holding on for dear life! Yep! Me too!
We all take on too much. We want to complete that ‘To Do’ list, answer every email, help friends and family, learn a new skill, read that book, be that amazing parent or perfect partner. You get the idea.
Here’s the thing… we’re only one person – we can’t possibly do it all and ALL AT ONCE!
There just simply is not enough time to fit it all in and to give it our meaningful attention. What’s more when we take on so much – we deplete our energy – which leaves us vulnerable to serious stress and illness.
So I say, give up on trying to do it all. It's time to simplify. Say NO! Don’t try to be perfect. Don’t try to have the most perfect life you can create.
Instead, make your days count. Pump your energy up!
Need some help? (I certainly do!) Here are some ideas:
All of these ideas can be practiced at different times. They are meant to help us focus on where we are. To remind us to be mindful of what we’re holding on to. What we’re using to distract ourselves. Our ideas of perfection. To help us let go.
It takes practice…believe me I know. Unchecked, I am a total control freak! It is so worth the effort though. So…. That thing that sings to your soul…that brings you joy – do more of THAT!
Supporting You on Your Journey,
I've know Emmanuel Dagher for a few moons now and I simply love his energy! He has a monthly Energy Forecast that is always so illuminating and inspiring. September's forecast really spoke to me and it's my pleasure to share it with all of you.
In the beginning, when we were first birthed into physical existence, we had complete awareness of our Divine and eternal Sovereign Selves. We understood that we were One with all of Life, and that we were physical embodiments of Source/God Energy, the all-encompassing Energy that is the Center of all Universes.
We understood that this Energy that lived and breathed through us was not confined to any one specific gender, color, or other trait that may limit Itself in any way, but was rather fully able to recognize Itself as all of us, and all of Life.
When we had this full awareness of who and what we really were in our physical existence, peace reigned, love flourished, and unity prevailed.
Everything flowed and co-existed perfectly. Aging did not exist, as our body temples remained youthful, vibrant, and light . . . pristine and whole.
Along the way, the mind slowly began to forget its Divine nature, as if a veil had been placed upon it. These veils included things such as doubt, worry, fear, stress, belief in lack, and anything else that reinforced the idea of separation.
These veils began simply as a result of the mind believing itself to be of a world that only existed in the material realm, forgetting that it was actually meant to be eternal and free. At the foundation of the forgetful period was simply a lack of trust in the Universe, so that self-protection became the guiding force. A long period of forgetfulness ensued.
Throughout this forgetful period, beings of light would continually materialize into physical form as teachers and sages who would plant seeds of Higher Consciousness for humanity. Though outwardly much of the wisdom these beings shared would be misrepresented through the ages, the seeds of Divine Remembrance were nevertheless planted in humanity’s consciousness, to be activated in due time.
Then something wondrous began to happen. In the twentieth century, the seeds that had once been planted in the consciousness of humanity began to activate themselves. People from all around the world simultaneously began to receive higher guidance. New technologies and achievements began to move us forward as a civilization, at speeds we had not known for millennia.
As humanity began to awaken, the collective ego/mind of humanity began to also act out relentlessly, because it felt as though its livelihood was at stake. It began to do anything and everything it could think of, through whatever means possible, to remain in the comfort of the illusion of separation it had grown accustomed to.
So when we see chaos in the world, that is a clear confirmation that the collective ego/mind is holding on for dear life, because it knows a big breakthrough is on the very near horizon.
The Missing Piece
I share all of this to say that what took place in mid to late August 2015, as a result of the global efforts of millions anchoring the Light—during an event that is synchronized yearly with the dates of the Divine Harmonic Convergence that took place in 1987—forever secured a new age of Unity, Love, and Equality for all.
Here’s how it happened:
From August 15 - 20, 2015, a conscious (and for some, unconscious) decree was made by millions around the world, and a series of light activations were made that affirmed that whatever it would take for humanity to receive the breakthrough necessary to shift humanity into higher ways of being, that it occur immediately.
Through the power of millions gathered intuitively, making the same decree, a massive activation occurred. The breakthrough was this:
Instead of trying to “get rid” of the ego/mind as many teachings, religions, and structures had us convinced we needed to do, what if we simply embraced it?
What if we could understand that the ego/mind is just doing the best it can to keep itself/us safe?
What if we could love the ego/mind and thank it for trying to protect us in this way?
What if we no longer needed to judge it, or to be hard on it when it tries to show up a certain way for us?
Well my amazing friend, that is the breakthrough that occurred. I am excited to say that through the efforts of millions on Earth, and of course our amazing celestial families in the ethers aligned with Pure Love/Source, for the FIRST time since the moment when the mind began forgetting our true Divine Nature (we’re talking millions of years ago), the mind has been freed once and for all.
It has been freed from taking comfort in the doom and gloom scenarios, and has been opened to receiving the highest wisdom, gifts, insights, and blessings that our Spirit desires us to experience.
If you would like to reinforce this sacred breakthrough, simply affirm out loud to yourself and to the Universe:
“Dear mind, I love and accept you wholeheartedly from this second on. I am so sorry for being so hard on you, and making you think I was trying to get rid of you. You play such an important role in the Universe, and you no longer need to fear losing your identity in any way. I now promise to be here for you. To love, nourish, and guide you always, and to unite you with our Spirit. You and our Spirit were once best friends, and our Spirit is waiting with open arms to embrace you once again. You are free, I Am free. You are free, We are free. And so it is!”
With any healing or activation, there is usually an integration period that follows. If you find yourself feeling a bit more emotional, or more in your mind than usual, or if you are still in patterns that reinforce fear or separation, just know that these are not you anymore.
They are simply the mind’s way of processing and assimilating the new breakthroughs we have co-created in our consciousness, and in the consciousness of humanity.
We will also continue to see a great deal of things come to the surface over the next few months, to be released out of our collective psyche.
The key here is to remain steadfast in knowing that it’s all happening because so much light has and will continue to anchor itself in the world, moving us into a beautiful direction of higher consciousness.
Depending on where each person is in their level of consciousness, everyone will integrate in the perfect way for them, in their own time.
Being gentle with ourselves, and also honoring the journey of others, wherever they are now (even if it’s not where we “think” they should be), will greatly help to accelerate the mind-healing breakthroughs we have brought into our reality.
The job is done. It has been sealed, and fully activated.
Another thing we can do at this time to quickly integrate the mind-healing breakthrough is to ask questions like the following:
Who am I outside of fear, lack, and separation?
Who am I when I choose to embrace my ego/mind as an extension of my Spirit Self?
Who am I when I am free to love and be all of me?
Who am I when I let go of the need to judge?
Who am I when I fully know and trust that my Spirit is keeping me safe always?
Who am I when I remember my Divinity?
Once all of these changes sink in fully, the breakthroughs that took place this August will be looked back upon for many years to come as a major turning point in humanity’s shift into higher consciousness.
If you haven’t already felt the difference, you will soon.
With humbled grace, until next time –Miraculously yours,
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Do you ever feel like you just can't muster the energy or the focus to do much of anything? No motivation is showing up? Depression is pulling you down? Yep - welcome to Bluesville. (A place I visit myself now and then.)
The good news is that you don't have to move there!
Here are some factors that can lead you down the road to Bluesville:
• Low energy from overwork, illness, lack of sleep, overdoing exercise or other excessive behaviors.
• The negative thinking slippery slide - You know, where one bad thought about your life leads to another and another. Before you know it you've stopped believing in yourself.
These factors team up and come creeping in when you're going through a work or family crisis, when you're ill or sleep deprived or even sometimes in the midst of vacation time or celebrations. (Positive events can be stressful too.)
Here’s the scoop on how to deal with the doldrums:
1) Don’t believe any of those pesky, negative thoughts.
Tell those "negative Nellie" voices in your head to sit down and shut up! When your mind gets tired and negative, it enters a childlike state — not the happy, playful one - more like the selfish, petulant "gonna throw a tantrum" one.
You can’t believe what your mind is saying when you're in a state of anxiety, fear or extreme discomfort. You've heard it right? That nagging voice that says, “I can’t do that” or “I’m not good enough” or “I'm not important.” None of that is true! So when you notice these thoughts, tell yourself, “I’m just suffering and tired right now. I’ll figure this out when I’m in a calmer state of mind.”
Although you want the tantrum-throwing mind to be silent it's important to listen to the needs that are behind all that chatter. Are you overworked, need more rest, in pain or need some comfort?
Comfort yourself. Especially when we're suffering or exhausted we need more LOVE. Make sleep a priority. Give yourself permission to shut the world out. Turn off the television, the cell phones, the video games. Let yourself unwind. Turn off all the lights and meditate while you relax in bed. Let your body and mind heal and recharge through a great night's sleep!
It also helps (after some great sleep) to get your body moving. Especially if you’ve been stuck in an office or work from home. Go for a walk or do something active with friends. Play!
3) Talk to someone.
I know for me - it really helps to have an outsider’s perspective. Talk to a friend, a spouse, a parent, a co-worker, anyone. This is so important - don’t be too proud to reach out for help.
4) Accomplish Something.
Once you've rested and taken care of yourself - get outside of your head by accomplishing something. Put some time and effort into doing something special for yourself or someone else. It just feels good!
If you're life is overloaded and there's no more room to write something in on your calendar or 'to do' list- it might also be time to make some changes. Start saying No instead of Yes all of the time. Clearing your schedule can bring some much needed relief.
One last thing - It’s totally OK to be in Bluesville now and then. We all do it, so you’re not alone. It’s human to go through ups and downs. We sometimes get really tired, overwhelmed, doubt ourselves, and suffer. Don’t worry about it! You’ll get out of it, you’ll be stronger and wiser and ready to take on the next challenge with renewed energy and gratitude!
PS If you ever need it - Energy Healing can really help and ....I am always here for you!
Supporting You on Your Journey,